You are, by your example, saying that God is good, God is love! A loving Heavenly father that wants you to enjoy your life, sex and love. It is good not bad as some would have you believe.
All the "religious" systems of the world have some kind of fetish of self-denial, fakirism and self-torture, because they think that the more you suffer the more "religious" you are supposed to be.
There are times when we do have to suffer and sacrifice but we don't go out and do it on purpose , just as a show or self-righteous gaining of merit of some sort. When it happens it is because the Lord lets it happen, not because we think we're gaining any righteousness by it.
God is a good God, a loving God who cares for you and wants you to be happy and to enjoy things that are good for you, and that's the bill of goods that you are to represent.
You are God's representative if you're any kind of witness at all and you've got to show that so people will be able to believe you, believe in you at first and then find out it's really the Lord in you. Dr. Dwight L Moody, a famous evangelist said it when he said,"The only Bible the world reads is the one bound in shoe leather." That's the kind of love people can understand. They see you before they see God, but they see God in you eventually. They look in your eyes and can feel the spirit, without really knowing what it is, and are drawn to it.
They cannot resist the power, and you tell them why with your tongue: Who it is, what it is, why it is; the power of God, the Spirit of Christ. You can have it all, you don't have to pay for it, you don't have to attend church for it, it's free !
How wonderful ! What love ! You don't have to worry about it in advance, just flow with it as the Spirit leads you. We're not here to be ministered unto, like the world, but rather we are here to minister, to minister the true love of God, as Jesus said,"For even the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many."(Mk 10:45)
Don't hesitate to become Love, to show love, without expecting anything in return.
"I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service."(Ro 12:1)